I Promise to Hate, Despise and Abuse You Until Death Do Us Part is about difficult narcissistic husbands and how they affect you, your family, your church, and your social life. You can read a lot of books about narcissism, but not many from a Christian perspective. If you choose to stay with your difficult husband, this book gives you strategies for how to deal with him. If you decide to stay, you definitely need these strategies to survive him and his destructive behaviors. So please, order this book and read it. It will help you just as it has helped so many other women.
The first video in a series on narcissistic marriages by Dr. Troy W. Martin.
"This is one of the finest spiritual books written regarding Narcissism I have ever read. Have shared this book with several people, it has helped me personally to release unnecessary pain and guilt, seems to be doing this with others that are reading it. Highly recommend it to those who feel so lost and fearful for their sanity and safety. These authors know what they speak of, and they deliver this info with love and great understanding. Extremely helpful for those who have known narcissistic people. Thank you."--Necessary Truth
"Out of all of the self help books I have bought throughout the my life, this one truly turned me around. All of the other books were on how to make myself look better, change my ways so I could be loved. Surface type stuff. I found my life back when I read this book at how I have suffered at the hand of narcissistic alcoholics. No way to make these relationships work b/c I would have to change the dynamic woman that I truly am. I'm finally taking a stand for myself and keeping my eyes open and ears closed to those who are so harmfully critical of me. If you have no other books, this is the book to have. I learned so much about myself and how I have truly learned to attract positive people and energy into my life and say no to toxic entities! LOVE this book! If you do nothing else about your situation, read this book. You will find that these narcissists need you more than you need them. Can't say enough great things about it and read it in an evening! Thank you Andrea V. Oelger! You are an incredible woman!" --A. Smith – MO
"The strategies you recommend for staying with a narcissistic husband really work. I've used them, and my marriage is improved. At least, I think I can survive now. "-- T.C. in Washington
"I especially appreciated the biblical explanation you offer on divorce if the victim of a narcissistic husband finally has to take that route. I wish every woman in my church would read that chapter on divorce." -- M.T.N in Illinois
"I started reading this book and couldn't put it down until I finished it. Wow! I wish I had read this book years ago. It would have saved me a lot of pain and heartache."-- C.J. in Texas
I Love This Book!